Sunday, September 28, 2014

People, Humans, and Animals

What makes a person a person?

The only thing that separates people from other kinds of animals is their ability to ignore their emotions.


What separates humans from other kinds of animals?

1-40% of the genome.


Can someone be human without being a person?

Absolutely.


Can someone be a person without being a human?

Theoretically.  Intelligent extraterrestrials would likely qualify.


Can someone be a person without being an animal?

Theoretically.  Intelligent extraterrestrials might qualify.


Can someone be a human without being an animal?

Nope.  I don't see how that would be possible.

Tuesday, June 24, 2014

Uneducated, Unsolicited Legal Opinion (part 2)

Back on May 8th, I posted the following:

Using the victim's sexual history as evidence for the defense in a rape case is like using a victim's Christmas shopping list to defend a thief.  "Ladies and gentlemen of the jury, the so-called 'victim' in this case has demonstrated a clear pattern of giving things to people.  It is clear that this slightly-used iPhone was a gift to my defendant, which his accuser later regretted giving away."

That dog don't hunt.

I stand by this assertion, but I would like to add to that.  Blaming a victim for a rape because she was flirting is like blaming a guy for having his bike stolen because he rode it back and forth in front of a place that the thief frequented.  I've also seen an account of a defense lawyer using a victim's sexual fantasies about men the same age as the alleged perpetrator in the defense.  That would be equivalent to saying that a thief didn't steal a bike because the victim had been considering buying a bike for somebody the same age.

Thursday, May 29, 2014

#notallmen

One Man's Response to the back-and-forth between #yesallwomen and #notallmen:

Aside from this short personal screed, you won't ever see me use the hashtag #notallmen (though you won't see me use the hashtag #yesallwomen either, for the obvious reason).  But I get where it comes from.  Really, I do.  As a man who could quite reasonably use that hashtag if he pleased, I suspect that most men like me read #yesallwomen in two ways: as an attempt to chip away at their privilege, and as an accusation.  The privilege may not be fair, but it's quite human to like having privileges.  And even for a perfectly well-meaning man, the knee-jerk reaction to #yesallwomen can be defensive.  The movement states that harassment and assault is a universal experience.  If we're not on the receiving end, then we must, by implication, be perpetrators.

Now, obviously, that's not what #yesallwomen is actually about.  Even if it were, though, #notallmen would miss the point, because #yesallwomen marks narratives of things that, in a just world, would never happen to any women at all.  Ultimately, the issue here is a lot bigger than men's affront at a perceived accusation.

At the same time, big issues need wide support.  It's an unfortunate fact that simply telling the truth isn't enough.  To inspire change, it's necessary to tailor a truthful message in such a way that appeals to a wide audience.  So, even though it seems a little silly to thank people for doing what everyone should do, I will do it anyway.  On behalf of nobody but myself, thank you, #notallmen, for not being part of the problem.  Thank you for not doing anything to women that merits accusation.

With that said, even if you are not deserving of accusations, you may be in need of a wakeup call.  Instead of simply being among the many who are not part of the problem, why not join the much smaller number who are part of the solution?  Instead of simply refraining from harassing or assaulting women, why not remind your family or friends not to do it?  You could even show true courage by denouncing this behavior when you see it happen in public (and while #notallmen have done it, #yesallmen have seen it take place.  Admit it).

My response, as a man, to #notallmen:  yes, not all of them, but too many.

Thursday, May 8, 2014

Unsolicited, Uneducated Legal Opinion

Using the victim's sexual history as evidence for the defense in a rape case is like using a victim's Christmas shopping list to defend a thief.  "Ladies and gentlemen of the jury, the so-called 'victim' in this case has demonstrated a clear pattern of giving things to people.  It is clear that this slightly-used iPhone was a gift to my defendant, which his accuser later regretted giving away."

That dog don't hunt.